Millennial Empress Nester
My “Roman Empire”
Is that I was with a guy for 16 years
Who I housed, fed, sheltered, and loved
And felt middle to no affection, concern, presence, or joy in return
And if a human male can’t “adult” himself into maintaining that level of basic relationship
Then why would I want children with him?
Or even a house pet? Or even certain houseplants?
Because by comparison, all would out perform him in love and care.
And still care enough to not witness him take that “L”
But it’s cool now. I have drawn my current boundary.
I now refuse to live with any individual that cannot give a shit, take a shit, process shit, or nourish themselves on their own
And call that any home of mine.